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So, there is this disgusting, misogynist, homophobic loser website called Return of Kings, and their contributor “Tuthmosis” (oooh, big man, using a fake name and all!) wants to educate us all about how you can tell if a girl is a “slut” or not in his article “24 Signs She’s a Slut.” I won’t degrade my blog by linking to it and giving him more web traffic, but a few of the most memorable “signs” include:
- Having a tattoo, non-ear piercing or dyed hair follicles
- Using swear words
- Having divorced parents
- Not being ticklish (because, of course, that means that she has been HANDLED by a lot of men)
- Calling herself a feminist
This is what he SHOULD have written, because this is what he really wants to say:
How to Tell if She’s a Slut
Is she female? Then, boom! You’ve got your answer – she’s a slut.
I also have a response post for Tuthmosis:
How to Tell if You’re a Clueless Asshole with Shit for Brains
Did you just call someone a slut based on your own personal chauvinistic views of gender roles and pathetic ideas about how women should behave? BOOM BOOM! You’ve got your answer! Automatic Asshole. (Congrats!)
I know it makes more sense to simply ignore sad misinformed losers like this dude and everyone who contributes to the ROK website (which, coincidentally, also features articles entitled “All Women Are Sheep” and “How to Control Your Woman’s Diet”). But there’s something about the way it was written that made me stop. And that worries me.
It’s just that I can imagine a large number of people I know – both men and women – reading this and not being bothered. Not that I think they would wholeheartedly agree with his 24 Signs of Sluttiness (some of which are just SO ridiculous it’s hard to believe he didn’t write the post as a parody) – but that they might not see how wrong it is foster this type of sexist, slut-shaming mentality in the first place.
I’ve said it once before, and I’ll say it again. STOP slut-shaming! Shaming women for their sexuality is counter-productive. It leads to lower self-esteem for everyone. It perpetuates archaic gender stereotypes. It takes away any semblance of free will and choice that women have in their sexual lives and unfairly labels them as either a Madonna or a Whore.
That’s why I’ve stopped using the word “slut” entirely. If you ever hear me slip up, please notify me. It’s a word that serves no helpful purpose in our society and only works to keep misogyny alive and well.
I mean, really…if YOU aren’t comfortable with SOMEONE ELSE’s sexual behavior, shouldn’t you be looking at yourself and wondering why what they are doing makes you so freaked out?
Why can’t you just go about your life the way you want and let others do the same, as long as they aren’t causing harm to anyone?
I think you’re misconstruing the intentions of that piece and the nature of the site. It is meant as advice for men who want to have casual sex with lots of women. The objective wouldn’t be to identify sluts in order to avoid or shame them, but quite the opposite: to know which ones are easy lays.
I think you’re misconstruing the basic truth that women are people.
Yes, but not all of them are comfortable with the idea of casual sex. I’m not saying that the article is factually correct, but if there are indeed telltale signs of a woman’s desire to have non-committal sex it can save the prudish ones unnecessary harassment and the aspiring stud some time and embarrassment.
http.//www.returnofkings.com
There, linked for you
Plz cry more.
U MAD BRO?
the zionist anti-white feminist movement is bankrupt…and yet the masses are still asleep. you have won the culture war, and have prepared the way for a dark age. White families must now completely exit the sick judeo slut culture, move rural, become self sufficient, get off the jew grid. Enjoy your victory sluts…as you serve your jew master.
Ummmmm…..psychotic much?
This right here = solid gold.
You’re freaked out about words on a website? Sounds like a personal problem to me. I’d tell you to try therapy but something tells me you are already under care of a professional.
Wowwww I’m sooo offended! Not. At. All. I’m glad that trolls such as yourself are so freaked out by my post that you are wasting your precious loser lives commenting on blogs like mine.
I once laughingly referred to a lover as a “male slut” (meaning he was compulsively promiscuous). He didn’t like it either. Personally, I have claimed this epithet for myself. Yes, I’m proud to be a (retired) “ethical slut.”
It will be a sad day when all the feminists get old and there are not enough damaged delusional women to replace them. Who will I troll?
i love how butthurt all the feminazis are over that article.
it’s almost as if they realize deep down that being a slut isn’t something they should be proud of. so they lash out calling the author nasty names and wishing death and misfortune on him, you know, because they are oh so tolerant.
lollz
Hmmmm I fail to see where I mentioned anything about bodily harm to Sir Tuthmosis. As for calling him an asshole….ummmm. Yeh. I’m gonna stand by that one.
I totally agree. We need to stop using gender-charged words. If I can’t say it about a boy, I shouldn’t say it about a girl – and vice-versa. Well said.
Tell that to derrick danger. She says us men are rapists.
She is so bothered by an article it has caused her sickness.
To the dudes commenting on this:
As a man, you make me sick. Maybe one day you will have daughters and might see the err of your ways.
But you probably won’t either way.
You all sound like fucking date rapists anyway.
Lol. I’d be a better father to my future daughter than the current fathers of today’s sluts are.
danica are you jewish? The cultural marxist jew elite invented feminism to weaken the white family by introducing white women to perverse anti-nature doctrine. The top feminists have always been jewish, Jew psychologist Betty Friedan (born Bettye Naomi Goldstein) told white women they were wasting their lives on children.
The jew gloria steinem hailed a new age of sexual promiscuity and divorce as a positive social development, she demanded that women who desire a traditional lifestyle be attacked and terrorized, she directly implied that abortions are great, and every woman should have one. She openly declared communism, and cited her racial brother and comrade, Karl Marx, as a source of her opinions.
Dear anti-Semite, I am not Jewish, but I am also not a bigot like yourself. Your statements about Steinem commending violence towards women in traditional gender roles are completely invented and if you continue to write falsities like these and/or continue with your antisemitic ramblings I will be forced to disable your comments. GET A LIFE.
You know you’re doing something right when the MRA’s coming out to whine. Well done, D.
It’s too bad that all these men didn’t have mothers who love them and they will spend the rest of their lives hating women because of it.
This is hysterical. I must be pretty sheltered because I didn’t realize there were so many chauvinistic morons out there. Well done. Keep ruffling their feathers, D.
“Wowwww [we are] sooo offended! Not. At. All.”
Lawls this is fun
well said/written!! sexual scripts/ double standards are constantly reinforced on a societal level it’s so frustrating:/
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Dearest readers,
As a result of having had quite a number of relationships with different women in the past couple of years I would like to share the following opinion with you:
1) Being a slut is not bad. Believe me, men like sluts. I like sluts. Sluts notice you and have sex with you. People get around, sleep with each other, everyone get laid, there is action, everyone is happy.
2) What he means in this article, which is quite extreme, of course, is how to identify women that have more sex with men. I will also agree that smoking, tattoos, swearing and other types of behaviour like that are a sign of emotional/sexual liberation. Pretty much all of the girls I hooked up with (while being a student at UofToronto) smoked. Most had tattoos as well. There were about 5-6 of them, for 4 years.
3) Typical feminists are not sluts. They are not nice to you. They are not polite and respectful. They do NOT give you eye contact. They do not get drunk and sleep with you, or, if they do, you run a VERY HIGH risk of having the police knocking on your door the next day, as you, without your knowledge, have committed rape, you see, being the privileged patriarchal monster that you are. You pervert and pig, woman hater and rape apologist! How could you do this to this helpless victim (of course, the fact that you were both drunk does not matter, neither the fact you used your own condom and brought her for breakfast in the morning, hoping that at last you have found a girlfriend).
4) There is a difference between sluts and cunts. Sluts are good. Cunts are not good. Regrettably many women nowadays tend to be more of the second. I am quite sure that the fans of the slutwalk were more cunts than sluts. If they were sluts, they would much rather go bang some guy than do anything else, much like one of the girls I used to sleep with, who was a real slut and NOT a cunt (and did not protest). And she told me that she was a slut and I LIKED IT.
5) Typical liberated western women tend to be sexually starved because their requirements are conflicting, due to the feminist brainwashing that they can have everything they want and that everything a man does is below her and not good enough for her. And they should never settle because they deserve the best.
I.e. if she starts dating a football player, tall muscular and ripped, she gets bored because he can’t discuss Marx and Nietzsche, and likes sex too much, she wants something else, she breaks up with him.
If she starts dating a hipster (LGBT activist and philosopher), she get disappointed that he is not ambitious enough, has a pot belly and tends to never think about the future. She breaks up with him, she want something different.
If she starts dating an engineer who is ambitious and doesn’t have a pot belly, she is disappointed because he doesn’t provide her with an exciting lifestyle and a sense of danger. And is not tall and built enough. And doesn’t really agree with Hannah Rosin and her theory that men are obsolete. He is not good enough and she breaks up with him.
These are some examples but you get the general idea. It’s a never ending cycle.
As a result there are quite a few 30 and 40 something women around, who are still dating or divorced. Good luck, to them, I would say.
6) There are no efforts on the part of ANY organization to make people get along better. How many ads on the topic of “Divorce is not the answer” have you seen? How many lectures about how can we make people’s relationships happier have you seen? Who teaches people today to be nice, polite and respectful, and not stuck up and militant, both men and women?
Thank you for the attention,
A.
By the way, not everybody who opposes feminism is an MRA, you know. Some of us are just trying to be rational.
And also, don’t come at me with the argument that I call women cunts and must be banned. SOME women are cunts. Some are not. Just like some men are assholes. And some are not.
P.s. I am BIG fan of Andrea Dworkin by the way. I think she should be taught in highschool, together with Valerie Solanas.
Dear Danica, can you please moderate my comment?
Thanks, A.
Sure, I hadn’t seen it before. It’s now been posted. Sorry for the delay.